Tyre Nichols was, in his own words, an “aspiring photographer.” His favorite subject was landscapes. He also loved shooting videos while skateboarding. As one of his friends said, he used his camera “to capture the moment. . . . That was who he was. That was his life.”
“Photography helps me look at the world in a more creative way,” Tyre explained on his website. “It expresses me in ways i cannot write down for people. My vision is to bring my viewers deep into what i am seeing through my eye and out through my lens.”
(Notice how Tyre didn’t capitalize “i” when referring to himself. To me, this suggests a humble spirit.)
Browsing Tyre’s online portfolio, you’ll see a number of night shots. And you might wonder, as I do, if he had his camera with him on the evening of January 7 when Memphis police stopped his car.
Five officers eventually murdered him up with their batons, boots, and bare hands, only sixty yards from his mother’s house.
We know this happened because of cameras that weren’t his.
I went online. I found the video. I took a deep breath. I pressed play.
Ten seconds into the beating, I had to stop. I closed the video tab and shut my laptop, as if that would help me unsee what I’d seen. Or undo what had been done.
Maybe, like me, you’ve done both.
We live much of our lives at the heart of paradox, holding in tension the truth of seemingly contradictory things. We can, for instance, feel the need to shield ourselves from grim realities, even as we feel the need to confront them.
How do we reconcile these opposite desires?
That’s one of those “unsolved questions” that Rilke famously described—a question that we must be patient toward and try to love like a locked room, or like a book written in a foreign language. It’s a question that we must live, and live, and live, until, one day, without noticing, maybe we live into an answer.
As of now, in Tyre’s case, five policemen have been fired and charged with second-degree murder. All of them are black.
The officers deserve a fair trial. But frankly, whatever legal verdicts might one day be rendered, when it comes to ethics, our eyes and ears are jury enough. There can be no ethical justification for the violence unleashed against Tyre Nichols. It was beyond wrong. It was vile.
We understand this.
But do we, at the same time, understand the perpetrators?
Do we understand how black men might so internalize the racism of the majority white culture that they end up serving as its diabolical instruments, snuffing out people who look like themselves?
Do we understand how police training and culture, over years of service, might so dehumanize individual officers—even traumatize them—until they can no longer recognize and honor the humanity of those they’re sworn to protect?
Do we understand how we might better attend those who actions sicken us and make us turn away in exhaustion and judgment?
I’m so tired of wrestling with what they mean, and how to stop them.
Chances are, you’re tired, too.
But here’s another paradox: We can be tired, yet still have all the energy we need to change things.
In fact, I doubt that any significant change ever comes to this world without significant tiredness.
William Carlos Williams: “It is difficult to get the news from poems, yet men die miserably every day for lack of what is found there.”
Both of these statements, though they disagree, are true. Together, they’re a paradox.
Poetry doesn’t matter. Yet it’s essential, I believe, to the ripening of this world.
So is music. So is dance. So is film. So is whatever you yourself happen to make, big or small, creatively adding to the righteous beauty of this world.
What you do—what you make—won’t change anything. Yet it will.
As a photographer, and as a young black man in the United States, Tyre Nichols lived and died at the heart of this paradox. His memory still abides there.
Will you meet me in the midst of it, to live our questions into answers?